Monday, April 21, 2014

The message I got in church today during Easter service.

When I am in church listening to the word, I get the urge to write down what I am feeling...
Scripture to meditate on Luke 24.

Here is today's word I was blessed with.

People are going to pull you towards them to remain safe in the place they're at. Folks who embrace sin know its wrong but don't want to be alone. This is also their way of testing your resolve in the faith you claim. They figure if you're willing to sin with them your God can't be as strong as you say.

Your focus has to be one of openness along with a firm strength. Sin in any form can engulf any and everyone who gives into it. Once you get pass this place with people many will start to release their grip on the sin which they clung to and begin to search out the peace you've displayed through your faith. People love peace, comfort and safety, by holding on to your faith in the face of sinful situations, you'll be the catalyst for true transformation for those who want it.

As Christians we have to lead the people who turn towards us to Jesus. They have to learn the peace you're displaying comes from knowing Jesus as your savior. This is a daily struggle but one which pays off for all who turn away from sin, give in to Jesus, and truly become transformed. The ending is ever lasting life with God Himself in Heaven. Where where we we'll all be given everlasting peace.

This may not seem like a new message for some, however no man is immune to sin and if we are going to help others free themselves from sinful situations we have to be willing to meet them where they are which means we risk being in proximity to sin. It is my hope to continue to work on my person walk of faith to be an example to others of the peace of mind the Lord grants.

Here are the things I am working on daily to get me closer to the Lord.


  • Fellowship more with others in the faith. 
  • Commit more time to understanding who God is. 
  • Release those things which are holding me back from the Lord. 
  • Study more about Jesus's life. 
  • Pray More and Meditate More listening for the Holy Spirit to speak to me. 
  • Do more to increase the health of my body. 
  • Sleep more while praying every time I lay down to sleep. 
  • Witness more to others who don't know Jesus.
    Finally, 
  • Write more daily and make sure I am writing more then I am on Facebook or other social networks.

Friday, April 18, 2014

4/17/2014 Show "Is Boaz Avoiding You"

Tonight we looked at the idea behind why are good men (Boaz) avoiding certain women, and how can we fix this. 

We had a interesting show and I hope we answered some of the questions. 


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Thursday, April 10, 2014

Reality and Relationships April 10th Show. New Format.

Tonight's show, I went solo... New Format. 

  •  How It Felt To Become A Dad For The 7th Time, But The 1st Time In Love? 
  • Men, Why Do We Leave Our Women All Alone To Have Our Children Without US? 
  • Ladies, How Do You Feel About Him Not Being There When The Baby Was Born? 





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Sunday, April 6, 2014

"The Power of the Tongue."



I pray this helps someone. "The Power of the Tongue."

Here on the internet and in person, folks feel they can say whatever they want. Really? Why even acknowledge the Lord if you feel this way? If He gives us rules to follow, why do so many of feel we can say whatever we want and there is no problem or penalty to pay?
Does this sound like a Father with a plan? One who would allow His children to feel they can say anything they want to anyone? The Lord sent James and others to speak us on the power of the tongue. We know how damaging the spoken and written word can be those we love and those we don't. Yet we refuse to try to control ourselves as if everything is going to be OK on its own.
You can't call yourself a believer in a Lord or Heavenly Father who gives you rules to live by and would then allow you to break them without any acknowledgment  of breaking the rules or honest atonement. Would you simply allow "I'm Sorry" to be the choice of disciplinary action in your home if you came in and found your child speaking in an adult and/or negative fashion?

Look at verse James 3:6-12
James tells us how damaging the tongue is and how hard it would be to bring it under control. However, we can't say anything we want and feel its OK. Even when there is no one around, for the Lord sees and knows.
Now this isn't something you can change in a day but it is something to work on once you admit to yourself you're doing wrong. If not, when you face the Lord, try to convince Him why you needed to say the things you did and see how that works for you. No one is perfect but knowingly doing something wrong is not a mistake.
I can't say anything to those who aren't believers since they don't profess to the love the Lord. However, those who call themselves Christians and believers of the Faith, have got to govern themselves accordingly or answer to the Lord not other Christians. So your query is not with me but between you and the Lord on your actions. I am working mine out with Him myself.

Here is the complete scripture to study if you want.

James 3
New International Version (NIV)

Taming the Tongue

3 Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly. 2 We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check.

3 When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. 4 Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. 5 Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.

7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? 12 My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.

Two Kinds of Wisdom

13 Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. 14 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. 15 Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. 16 For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.

I pray this helps someone who reads,, Feel free to share with any and everyone who might need to read it. Just give proper credit to my words. God Bless.

17 But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. 18 Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.

Monday, March 24, 2014

Sisters, I am Sorry!


Up late on guard,,, Listening out for Kayelle, watching the wife sleep (she's getting some well needed rest), about to wash the dishes and clean out the bottles to have them on deck for the morning.


I asked the Lord for clarity and with the birth of Kayelle I got it,,, Brothers, we have to find a way to do better towards our sisters. We have to find a way to protect them, care for them and uplift them through Love and Respect. Watching Tiff trying to move around after the delivery surgery, seeing what's needed to get Kayelle calm when she's hungry or just cranky, dealing with her bodily changes to be ready to nurse. It made me wonder deeply about the sisters who have no help. Thinking about the younger sisters doing all by themselves.
Part of what I do in working with young men and older men, is helping them transform into better well rounded men. Finding the real men insider themselves, that mission is deeper now. We have to fix this problem. Its nothing new, but I am going to do more where I can.
When Tiff and I created the Making Marriage Cool Again movement it was to change this very situation I am speaking on. I made a promise to myself and I am going to keep it >>>>The Making Marriage Cool Again Handbook , which will be designed to go along with the seminar will be completed by July 1. I am going to have it with me when I travel this summer. I am going to save some lives and relationships where I can. These are too precious of moments to be spent alone.
Ladies I can only say I'm sorry for my brothers' actions. I know its not much. I was one of them for a long time. But, I'll do what I can to fix this and to help. I know it may seem impossible but my God is powerful God. I'll lean on him to help me get the brothers to see the whole picture. If the Lord can save and fix a trifling man like the man I was, He can do the same for the brothers out here who act as if they don't care about you are their ladies or their children.


If there are brothers out there who you think need my help please direct them to me,,, Or have them read my book "From Gigolo to Jesus" to understand my own transformation. To get a signed copy or to contact me stop by www.BravinPublishing.com